Good news for Chad Ochocinco -- his ex-wife Evelyn Lozada says she "totally forgives" him for headbutting her during their infamous 2012 domestic violence incident.
Bad news for Chad Ochocinco -- Lozada says there's NO WAY IN HELL he'll be invited to her upcoming wedding to MLB superstar Carl Crawford.
"I don't give a s***," Lozada says ... "It happened 4 years ago. It is what it is. I'm happy, everybody's moved on with their lives, right? Why be angry? I totally forgive. It's all good.