Dear Ann Cannon • I hope you can help me with a dilemma. I have plans to meet my best friend from high school when she visits her in-laws this summer in a month. We haven’t seen each other for 25 years, and I am looking forward to this so much. She lives thousands of miles away and because of my family’s vacation plans and her in-laws, our window to reconnect in person is limited.
Part of her visit involves introducing her grandchildren (ages 5 and 2) to their great-grandparents, who will be accompanied by her daughter Sally, the children’s mother.