Winners win the games; losers blame the refs.
That’s always been the case in the NFL. Yes, there is a relatively rare instance in which a single call directly influences the outcome of the game, but most of the time, teams have time to recover from a missed or bad call. Play better, and you don’t need to worry about it.
You could say that was true in the Bills-Jets Week 14 game, too. Buffalo was ultimately the better team on the field, making the plays when it counted. But one call after the game calls the entire NFL officiating mechanism into question.