INDIANAPOLIS -- We all have two bucket lists. There's the one everyone talks about, that rundown of experiences we hope to complete before kicking the proverbial bucket. Then there's the second bucket list, the one no one likes to mention. The surrender list. Those life goals that end up crossed off the menu and thrown into a bucket labeled, "Well, damn, I'm never gonna do that."
Why not? Because we get older. We fall in love. We fall out of love. We procreate. We move. Our hearts and our bodies become more fragile. Our list of people for whom we are responsible expands from just ourselves to rooms full of folks, whether they be corporate boardrooms or family dining rooms.